Monday, April 23, 2012

Hussy Update Time...

Greetings fellow perverts~
Snapped a few pix after session 4.20.12
Hope you all are well & keeping busy, I am :) I do miss a few of you, I think of all My pets often & I cant wait to play again! I am really lucky to be able to have so much fun & make a living doing what I love. It is a lot of work & bullshit to sort through but I meet some of the sweetest kinksters Ive ever met who make Me feel so appreciated for being Me. Ever since I began as a Pro Domme I have to admit, I feel more like Myself than I ever had before. Its been challenging in some ways, yes, but because of all the fun and rad kinksters I have met its been really so rewarding in many ways too. I don't take lightly who I allow into My life & that goes the same for anybody I will accept session requests from.. I tend to block! and tell people to fuck off if they don't approach respectfully. I don't mind turning down tons of boring, illegal, uninspiring sessions.. I would rather take sincere, sweet, polite kinksters who communicate effectively & who treat Me the way I deserve to be treated -from fun kinky fetish play, spanking, forced strap on worship or if I do decide to indulge in one of your favorite types of play.. Call Me crazy but I prefer lifestylers who truly appreciate & respect Me over a bossy man who calls himself submissive who really thinks because he is paying that I have to spend time with him.. I don't. 
Ever get dressed up just to get dirty?!
Welcome to My world lol
 I loved meeting all the new pets these last few weeks, thank you for being so good to Me. I like it when a kinkster relinquishes his freedom & has fun with a scene & doesn't take it too seriously! I do demand respect. I will lead the way. I wont let you tell Me what to do. But we can have fun.. & I'm open to suggestions if properly expressed in a respectful manner. I am always open to hearing requests for activities I don't currently have an interest in, & mainly because I'm more fascinated with the "why this kink" aspect of it, that's also why the Request A Session form is so long.. For example I remember the first time I did a golden shower. It was with a pet who had been serving Mistrix & who was seeing Me for sessions while She was away.. That was one of his many kinks.. I thought it was funny! He wanted Mistrix & I to mark our territory! & that's how I think of it always. I guess naturally, that carried over to brown showers. A kinkster in OC politely introduced himself, was up front with references & his kink. I did check him out through a reference he gave Me who spoke very highly of him.. I got such a high from the session, I still cant help but to smile when I think of that perv! Owned. ;) I had never done scat play before but I did & I had fun! I loved that this was the way he felt a Woman was most Dominating & when he felt most humiliated. I guess roman & ruby showers are the two showers left to try.. Or am I mistaken?! Lol.  
For My dirty feet lovers...
This weekend was fun! I usually gravitate toward FemDom driven events but I do enjoy meeting new people since I am newer to the scene. I spent Saturday night at My favorite play space (where I session in OC) for their monthly play party! I love the space, feels like home. I love the owners, they're such great people & really I feel are keeping the scene alive here in OC. I spent at least an hour or so beating a rad masochist with another lifestyle Domina :) I met her at a FemDom party two or three months ago & had so much fun feeding off each others energy, timing & play style. I don't mind that there aren't that many true masochists around because none I have seen take pain as well as this guy does! The zipper style plastic tail floggers really got such good use!! I felt amazing afterwards as I usually do after a great scene.  
I also went to a rope suspension class!!! I have been wanting to attend more classes & learn more because it is truly something I enjoy doing. Rope is fun for Me, I think the sexy vulnerability of someone tied up wont ever get old. Ive played around with binding subs to bondage furniture and to themselves a bunch now. I wanted to attend Julie Simones rope class when she was in LA but it got cancelled. Tim Woodman was teaching this class & Mika Tan, Caroline Pierce & Emily Prior were there to help demonstrate & assist showing us how to properly suspend someone :) I'm excited to make one of My rope loving subbies fly when we get some time in the dungeon together. Did I name drop enough?! Lol. I don't know these people well personally, but I am very inspired by them.
New toy~ I wonder who will be the first brave soul to take it!
New heels sent from a very sweet & naughty kinkster I met last week!
So sexy & very much appreciated!!!
Whats coming up?! DomCon is coming up. That's what. It will be My first year attending. I plan to soak up all the Hussy play time I can with Mistrix! She will be in town from May 16th to May 20th! If you have been interested in serving, sessioning or spoiling Her or the both of Us together~ please make as much advance notice as you can :) I'm sure We will have lots to do so early planning is necessary. We Both require deposits for new play partners. Her website is MistrixMsE.com for further info, or you may contact Me to inquire as well, no bullshit though, complete the Request A Session form on My website SheriDarling.com. We will be staying in a hotel near LAX & both accepting session requests & almost all forms of spoiling!
Spoil Me: HERE in the meantime..
I have a great surprise coming up in a few weeks only 2 people know about & not the two people youd think to ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To request a session go to SheriDarling.com!
Lets play soon, lots of activities to do!
xoxo

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Back from vacation & ready for anything..

Hi Sweet pets~ miss youuu
Went shopping for a few new lingerie pieces, you're welcome...
I got conductive rope to go with the violet wand I was gifted but it doesn't really work that great :/ but at least I can still restrain people with it, right lol 
I remember My first time on the bottom & when I top someone who has never seen a Pro Domme I think back to that experience. I like to say that I might "role play your submissive" & then add a bunch of conditions onto it which to Me, is not a submissive at all. I just know that when I come in contact with a true submissive the tone of our interaction is completely different than with a fetishist or any other play partner, to Me it's something special & flattering. Each pet is different but I love playing with true submissives, newbies or BDSM veterans, who want a total power exchange, its an awesome gift & gives Me a high for hours afterward.
This pet was so polite when approaching to request a session.. I was very proud to give him his first marks & welts and always am when I get fresh slave meat in My little hands. I get asked a lot "What do You enjoy the most?" & to be honest: I really get into Domme mode when pets are polite, sincere, quiet, when they say "yes Miss Sheri" & "thank You Miss Sheri" a lot in response (& when they don't rattle off a "No list" before we begin) ;) I guess if I had to categorize them Id say I like pain slut subs and slutty slut submissives / fetishists the most. I don't want to say I like these 3 activities because each pet is so different that I do truly enjoy them all in different scenarios.  
Naturally, I love being worshiped.. I am fortunate enough to be treated well by a few sweet pets between sessions or just because they sincerely worship Me from afar. Its awesome! ;)
6" T-strap heels sent from a sweet cute pet, thank you xoxo
Vegas was awesome! I spent 4 days 3 nights in Vegas at the new Vdara hotel & absolutely loved it. Its a smaller all suite hotel with no gaming and no smoking. I had a great time playing away from home & plus it was great to just get away from all responsibilities and reward Myself with a much needed vacation.
Tiger Army put on another great show complete with a Buddy Holly "Rave On" & Rick Nelson "Nobody Else But Me". Their music warms My cold black heart like no other. Lots of love songs, lots of tortured soul songs also.. Looks like Ill see them in October when they play Octoberflame shows again.
I'm always going to Vegas. I tend to be able to find 4 or 5 excuses over the spring and summer time and I usually go for My birthday in November too. I enjoy relaxing at the pool or at a spa the most & always treat Myself to the best restaurants I can find.  
  • Right now plans are to work hard to pay off bills!
  • The only big event in the near future would be DomCon in May. I would LOVE a pet to dress Me for it. There are many things on My wish list & leather and latex attire are the most important.
Cant wait to play with you perverts again, soon xoxo

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Daydreaming of sissy boys..

4.5.12 Im sitting here daydreaming about all the sweet crossdressing boys I have met this last year & wanted to suggest something I think we would both love... I have seen Dita Von Teese a few times in the last few years & Im sure you will agree that she is such an inspirational Woman, I could go on forever about how amazing her shows are.. She is going to be in LA during May & I think we should go...
I was thinking this would be a great opportunity  for an extended night out type of session with a crossdresser who would be willing to venture into public. Ditas show has to be the one place that this is encouraged right.. & I think that it could be great fun for a boy who dreams of allowing the gorgeous girl within come out and play...
Miss Sheri meeting Dita Von Teese in Vegas 2010 
A hotel suite to primp and prep & play a bit at would be lovely but we could hit the dungeon as a substitute..
Tickets, preferably VIP so we could sit & sip on cocktails..
For one of My favorite cross dressing boys I already know & trust: I would be willing to negotiate a special tribute rate for you.

Ok I just wanted to rattle that thought off.. No pressure, you can always simply gift Dita tickets too ;) I hope all My sweet pets & perverts are well.

Wow this blog post gets a lot of traffic! I thought I should elaborate on the other thoughts I tend to get asked from gurls after reading this. Yes, I do offer these type of sessions in a dungeon setting. They can be for an hour, which is way to quick for My taste, or very elaborate sessions that last for hours together. I prefer you gurls to bring your sexy outfits, pantyhose, heels especially because you cant squeeze into Mine lol, & accessories etc. I understand that many of you are completely new & don't have those items, I can & will provide some for a first session.. I love this type of play, it is something I hold close to My kink heart & do not take lightly when a boy comes to Me with this request.. 
I do feel like the transformation is special & different for each CD or girl. Depending upon the goal this can range from simple articles of clothing & mannerisms but for others this can be very detailed down to nail polish color, type of pantyhose or stockings preferred, wigs, makeup, lingerie, & the final layer of clothing. Are you My new sissy maid? Are you My slutty new lezbo bimbo girlfriend? Perhaps you're a new tg & want to explore your deviant side & have Me push you into becoming the Dominant Diva that dwells within.
If you are reading this over and over (I think that might be the reason there is such high traffic on this post lol) I think you should take the leap & come play for a session. I know I would have a lot of fun with it (even if it is "forced") & I know you would learn a lot about yourself & the sexy bitch within.  Just contact through My website www.SheriDarling.com & we can coordinate our schedules. Just let Me know how elaborate you would like to get & please *be respectful* Don't request to be My whore, I get offered that every day & those guys get blocked without a blink of My eye.
Lifestyle: I understand some of you are true lifestylers & if you'd like to be My sissy slave I expect a proper, polite introduction via My slave application tab on My website as well as an offer in place of tribute. We can be girlfriends if you spoil Me like one.. 

UPDATE 2 years later~
June 18, 2014

I love being able to look & see My blogs pop up based on online searches. I did want to update now that I have a few more years experience as a pro Domme because there has been many more sissy slaves in My life since posting this blog. Ive become so much further emotionally invested in this fetish than I could have ever imagined lol

A place to be served at home in My last apartment:
High heel locks for training purposes, and sexiness..
The lovely cock whore closet at My last apartment:
(Im working on making sissyland pretty, in My new apartment.) 
My sissy slave 
 
Little sluts galore over the past few years:
Celebrating becoming a long term keyholder while modeling gifts, Id say Ive had a good handful of serious chastity pets. Usually guys just get off about the idea of chastity. How stupid is that?! lol At least its still fun either way.
Even My commissioned Sardax portrait was depicting My sissy slave, and My slaveforSheri
I love making use of sissy maids
And good sissy maids love serving Me






Stay kinky xoxo