Saturday, September 9, 2023

Treat yourself.

Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Friday, November 4, 2022

Fall / Birthday wishlist update

 Hello fans and lurkers ;)

I have been doing great, thanks for always coming back to check in on Me!

Lets catch you up on what I have been up to since the last update!

Had to show off this incredible new custom latex costume I had made! More on that later. 
This photo set can be found on My fan pages.
Thank you, slaves, for being so good to Me. I have had a challenging year personally but professionally it has been a great year full of loyal slaves dedicated to seeing Me happy. I feel incredibly fortunate and thankful for all of you who work so hard to put a smile on My face. I keep My circle small, and I know it's been the best thing for Me. I love going deeper with each of My playthings and knowing they see Me as their Mistress and an important part of their lives is exactly the kind of relationships that I want to continue to build on. Thank you, slaves!
Me at a Raiders game courtesy of My slave.
I have had a really nice balance of work and play. I am glad that I stopped putting pressure on Myself to work hard all the time and instead make self-care a priority. I had been working straight through the rona scam and then I had a pretty wild health issue come up towards the beginning of the year which slowed Me way down. I still have some residual symptoms from it. I hope to continue to improve but I can't express enough how important it is for Me to feel like My slaves aren't just depleting My energy but also feeding it as well. I'll continue to detox and to help Myself holistically any way that I can. It's also fun teaching My slaves how to help themselves feel better too when they're down. 
Post session selfie
Keeping My circle small has been such a great way for Me to get deeper into My slaves heads. Seeing them consistently makes Me so happy. It feels like I have a group of guys who truly very regularly worship Me, not just need a top and then leave for months on end. Seeing them fall deeper and deeper for Me always makes Me grin, even just thinking about them. 
Photoset on My fan pages.
I have a long list of people who would like to meet Me so maybe one day Ill finally get through it. The best way to achieve that for a slave would be consistent flattery. No amount of gifts or emails asking "when" will get you to My feet. The gifts without the relationship sometimes feel like guys think they can bribe Me into meeting them but that's not true. 
Locktober was fun. Its always funny knowing you guys want so badly to be teased and denied.. but most of you don't last very long lol and then you're begging for release. Its all fun to Me, I'm not disappointed at all. In fact, I love that you guys beg to be teased until you cant resist release. I love being a keyholder, its always fun toying with you. 
My birthday is coming up and all the good boys want to know what Id like!

Birthday Wishlist:
Send libidex gift cards? If you do before 11/7 some of the things Id like to send Myself are 20% off.
Here is a list of stuff Id love to own from there in order of priority just to give you the idea of pricing:
Two bodysuits Id like are $175 each (with 20% off)
Corset $291
2 different corsets $238
Dress $227
Cuff set $156
Collar $142
Arm binder $199

Id also love more custom latex by Abigail Greydanus. She made Me some great panties with My name on the ass for about $100. I love everything she has made for Me & could easily spend a thousand bucks on a new look lol My latex fetish is a bottomless pit <3

Sauna 1yr membership is only $999 *before 11/14* They accept cash which would be preferable. I spent a great deal of 2022 trying to detox and the sauna helps with that process a lot. Also, I won't freeze this winter in Vegas.

Gym membership passes to My fav oc gym I spent $2600 there in 2022. I can put your CC# into My online ap and you can pay as I go, or you can bring cash towards My account. :) I do spend a lot of money at the gym I go to in Vegas but not nearly as much as I do in OC where My friends are. 

Lululemon Gift cards. I spend a lot of time working out and some of My stuff doesnt fit as well as it once did now that Ive slimmed down. 

Rare plants. I like to shop at a place here in Huntington Beach & I would love for you to take Me on a shopping spree there after a session. I keep My plants in Vegas because its easier not to have them crowding the dungeon or have gnats sometimes flying around.

I update My amazon wish list pretty regularly so if you'd like to send something small from there, I would be happy and appreciative to receive it :)

Thank you for wanting to make My birthday special.

Last peek at My custom latex Halloween costume I had Abigail Greydanus make for Me. The rest of the photos can be found on My fan sites.

I had a great time at the Las Vegas Halloween Ball, formerly known as the Fetish and Fantasy Halloween Ball. I was invited by the great people who ran the OC dungeon that shut down 6 or 7 years ago. They run the dungeon stage show every year for this event and I was incredibly excited to get to see them again! Just seeing their dungeon furniture took Me back down memory lane. I met a ton of new people and had fun playing with them on stage. It had been suchhh a long time since I had been to a party where I was able to meet new people and play with them. The downside is I felt like a 100% pro top and not like their Mistress or like any of them actually cared about Me or if any of it was making Me happy. But I did sign up for that and I did have a great time anyway. Especially being some of their first experience with BDSM and playing. I will be back again next year for more. 

Here are My links:

Fan sites-

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Thursday, September 1, 2022

Summertime Sheri Update

 Hello Gooners, fans and former friends :)

Im still doing extremely well, thanks for checking in on Me!

Lets catch you up! Ive spent a lot of time smoking by the pool in Las Vegas where its now been a year of Me splitting My time between LV and HB! Time flew! Im loving both places more than ever. I think its given Me such a great balance that I had wanted for a long time. Glad I finally have it. It feels great to be able to make My dreams come true one slave at a time- whether its irl or virtually. 
In addition to feeling great I know that Im looking the best Ive ever looked physically. Im now into the 12 week of detoxing and I couldn't suggest it enough- and I usually do now. In addition to having Me control your mind and your cock Im now super happy when I can impact My slaves on a health level now by sharing what Ive been learning and applying to My own life.

I still love to have fun though. Photo from a slave date at a cigar bar in July. I love going to cigar bars & would like to visit them all. Being a health nut just means that Im more discipline than the normal human, but I think that goes with the territory. Ive always strived to become a better person. Physically. Mentally. Professionally. Im proud of who I am today, and I love Myself so damn much more every day that passes. Being this way tends to attract all sorts of people. From the kind who want to be energy vampires to the kind who see My shine and want to congratulate Me and be part of My life. Im very selective with who I share My energy with. Especccccccially after the rona scamdemic. Fortunately, I have good intuition about people and have met a lot of really cool subs lately. Happy.
Ive been enjoying a lot of reading time lately. I pick reading over tv time most days now. I added a bunch of books to My wishlist. One main topic I picked is Lucid Dreaming. The other being health. Lucid Dreaming was a topic My 11yo niece brought up so now Im trying to read books to approve and pass on to her. Shes an incredible little human and Im so fortunate to see her grow up. Next Im learning how to skate so that I can take her out to cool places and enjoy exploring fun places to practice with her. Just sharing a little of what I do outside of the dungeon because I do get asked a lot. I love being with My family and dogs.

I also have taken on a big interest in allowing slaves to take Me on dates, from day dates like snacks and drinks to actual dates after a session. I love being around classy men with good taste and having them treat Me well with reservations at fine dining or even just different activities. This was a day date with someone who wanted to play, so was actually the interview place I picked so I could see his demeanor, manners and hear what he really wanted to tell Me.  
Photo from a new favorite place, the sauna. I honestly went through some crazy health bs during May-July of this year. I thought I was going to die but I found out its a very common feeling in people who have health anxiety which I do. It felt like the same thing I had experienced before, when I came back from Costa Rica sick and couldn't get better for 6 months, was happening again. That is where My health anxiety began, worrying I would never get better or that I would stay sick for a long time again. I got a CT Scan, MRI & did physical therapy. I first wanted My doctor to help figure out what was wrong... but after waiting and literally begging for tests I decided to help Myself instead. Thank God I did. I think I would have stayed sick longer if I had waited for him to give Me answers. Thats what got Me into detoxing. Ive realized that working hard isnt always the best for Me even though I love to both in and out of the gym. I needed to be better about self care and about what I know is happening in My body. I found different recourses outside of traditional medicine and Im much happier and healthier now than I think Ive ever been. I know Im not completely immune to it but I do feel like I have control over it somewhat.  I got a massage membership and have tried to stick to getting in the sauna and red light therapy regularly in addition to My detox program. Now look at Me, you have never seen a happier Mistress in Me than today and every day going forward.
So thank you guys for sticking with Me, Especially slaveforSheri, slave j, and of course all of My slaves that I see regularly who I wont mention. you guys make Me feel so happy doing what is My job but its also so much more than that to Me, I know that you know that. One of you Ive been seeing for 11 years now, slave4Sheri has been Mine for over ten years.. Its because you make Me happy that I can be My true self with you and you give back energy that I put out so that I can keep going and not feel like My energy is depleted. Thank you <3
Ive been getting back into the normal routine and trying to be more consistent with it even though I do now prioritize being in balance more. Work hard then self care just as hard and relax is My new way of life. No stress. Just good vibes. I know whats right for Me and I attract it not chase it. 
What's new? New auctions! I used to love doing auctions and I finally found a place to do that again. Getting panties or socks or just sexy lingerie scented for you pervs to worship and adore forever is always fun. I love to see where these items end up and what you guys do with them. Someone who got one of My first auctions still worships them regularly and it tickles Me when he updates Me about spending time thinking of Me and loving My pre-worn stuff. is where you can find My auctions. 
Bid, win, worship - and HuffMyPanties
Beg to worship! Im online regularly even when Im seeing slaves irl. Because I can be picky, I am. So I do have a slight backlog of applicants. Some I am still considering. If I dont want to see you Ill just say so, I leave a lot on the table. Its stuff thats just not for Me. Never been happier to do that! I conserve My energy for the right people and those kinds of people keep showing up in My life. Like attracts like. I love hearing slaves introduce themselves though phone sessions. Phone conversations usually gives Me a great idea of someones likes, dislikes, goals and limits so I can usually gage if we will be a good match. Also seeing them grovel for Me online during cam dates is a big plus, especially for those who want to serve Me from a distance before they can make it to My perfect little feet. I usually take cam dates one or two days a week but only by appointment and one on one, not through a cam room. 
I hope you guys are doing well.
Whats coming up???
Halloween! I got asked to participate in what was known as the Fetish and Fantasy Halloween Ball in Las Vegas! Im very excited. Besides Torture Garden in Las Vegas (which I had a great time at) this is the second kink event Ive been able to enjoy since rona! I hope that if you dont have plans yet you can plan this in. Itll be Saturday October 29th at the Palms. Im sure you can duck duck go it and get a link for tickets :)
Birthday! Its two days before Thanksgiving this year so Ill probably celebrate it the weekend before. I plan on being in My dungeon the week prior so that I can see My favorite people and celebrate a fresh new year ahead of being your latex Goddess. I hope to see you and that you plan Me in!
Here are My favorite links for you guys to find Me on:
just add . com afterwards-
sextpanther . com /MissSheriDarling

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Sunday, April 10, 2022

spring season Mistress update

Me in Sheri Land, My gorgeous independently owned / run Huntington Beach, Orange County California dungeon.
Hello fans and former friends lol I am still here and still doing incredibly well. 
Thanks for sticking with Me and always checking back :)
This gorgeous leather dress was sent to Me from a very sweet slave <3 
Since My last update just before the end of the year I have managed to keep very busy while also accomplishing some things in My private life. I am happy to have some of the best slaves who get Me and keep Me busy regularly. I am still not that eager to add in new people. Id say how few people new that Ive seen since scamdemic but I dont want to deter anyone from presenting themselves for servitude. Im picky (as I should be) but I am becoming more open to meeting new people. Especially since changing My screening methods. Prior I would rely on another girl verifying that the guy is cool and trustworthy. Now I do not trust other peoples decisions like I did previously. Some girls are just not safe and can take chances because they need to. I am not one of those girls. I have a large stable of slaves who have met and upheld My standards through their servitude. Anyone new has to rise to the set standard in commitment, consistency and communication -to begin with.. I do not chase after slaves, that is not My job. Im here to be served.
New custom latex <3 TY slave for Sheri for ordering this custom bodysuit for My birthday present.
This custom catsuit was also a gift for My birthday. TY slave g for going out of your way to gift Me something that will keep on giving for years and years. Being sentimental there is no way I could ever get dressed in these stunning custom latex looks without thinking about the sweet pervs who enabled Me to own them. 
I still have not traveled lol I was in a really "fuck you" mood to the airline industry for all of scamdemic for treating people and staff like such shit but to be completely honest - those idiots can fly Me everywhere now: Im ready to travel. I miss it. I have worked hard on My dungeon and stuck to My stable of slaves and have met tons of fun distance slaves over the last two years. I am huge on planning but am now growing tired of hearing what you would do if you could. You can. And you will. That is, if you want to actually serve Me. 
This was from a fun slave date. He has been so sweet to Me for years. We finally reconnected for another session in Vegas where he got to take Me out to sushi and then play. More of this please :) Especially since I do have such a flexible schedule and bounce back and fourth between oc and Vegas easily.

Process to become My slave in a session:
Email Me with a polite introduction.
Explain exactly who you are and briefly outline your interest.
I expect you to be able to prove who you are via professional website link, online mentions, official ID and travel itinerary. 
Its really as simple as that. If you are a good slave who cares about their health and safety then I would expect for you to have read My website and blog to approach with an obvious understanding of who I am and what I expect from you right off the bat. If you are a good slave you have done this and are eager to be screened to make Me feel safe and to show Me exactly who you are online and offline. I do not want to meet anyone that I do not feel safe around or do not think I can trust. Its as simple as that. 
I have gotten tons of applications for houseboys. Does My space look like it needs cleaning?? lol I understand this is how some new guys think they can gain entry into My private life but they're wrong. Im a control freak who has a constantly clean and neat work space because I need it to be that way. Take Me out. Dates, shopping, activities. Almost anything sounds better than playing get-to-know-you while I manage someone new doing My chores. Unless I feel like Im saving time or money it tends to feel like work. Being My slave is about improving  My life - not just being in it. slaves I already know and like are different, they are always welcome to offer themselves up to serve after a session. Fortunately all My slaves understand the love I have for My free time to enjoy peace, quiet and privcacy <3 Bring something to the table or book a session. you can be a great client, you do not have to also be a lifestyle slave. 
I really like being a Mistress though. I have some really sweet guys who would do just about anything for Me. This lifestyle has definitely led Me to become more private and I do keep Myself isolated at times. Its just easier to keep all the secrets that way lol But we all need balance. Because I like planning dates and play scenes My balance tends to be focused around time with family or time in the gym where I can just not think about anything while Im there- true Me time. I feel super fortunate that I have plenty of time for it all <3
Its been a long time since I have ventured out into the fetish party scene but its finally happening and I hope you all come out to join Me. The largest international fetish club is coming to Vegas. I will be attending Torture Garden in Las Vegas this May 6th in Area 15! The nice people at Torture Garden gave Me a link to share with you all for a 15% discount: CLICK HERE for tickets or use code TGLVSHERI2022 at checkout. It was the perfect excuse for Me to order something new and shiny from My Los Angeles based latex designer Abigail Greydanus, I hope you slaves will send tributes towards paying for it. What I am most excited about is the TG strict dress code! I cannot wait to see what everyone is wearing to the party. I am excited to reconnect with some friends as well as people I have not seen in years and also meet some people in real life that I have only met online so far. If you're going I hope you drop a note or say hello if you see Me. 
I will be available for play scenes as well as slave dates with a bit of planning. For play scenes you must host and deposit 50% up front so sort your calendar and make plans while we both still have time to set aside for play! Thank you for reading My website and following directions if this is your interest. Obviously I will be busy with the event on the 6th but will be in town for a few days before and after the party.
I have been regularly updating My fan pages:
worshipSheri dot com -loyalfans
onlySheri dot com       -onlyfans
sextpanther dot com /MissSheriDarling
Join one and serve Me virtually from wherever you are. All of these sites have a webcam session feature that you can utilize to cam with Me. Tribute to get My attention to start off and then secure a time slot - let's play. I love seeing the look on your face as we meet on cam and then finding out how fun and submissive you can be for Me.
Ive also been doing a lot of reflecting lately. Its been almost a year since losing someone close to Me. That really put things into perspective and still does daily. That defining time showed Me the value of the relationships I had. I reflect about how I spent the last year. With who. Did they make Me happy or impact My life positively? I reflect about how I got to this point as a seasoned pro dominatrix of over ten years now. Long story short Id just really like to emphasize how fake the relationships I had within My own industry turned out to be. All the girls I've worked with have tried to screw Me or My biz over one way or another (except Isabella and Jordan).

The relationships that stood the test of time are all with people who don't need to use Me for promo, who don't need Me to bring them clients or need people to help make them look good. Thank you, friends.  

Its liberating to see the growth I've been able to experience since leaving those relationships behind. I'm  not sure if Id have Sheri Land and a footprint in Las Vegas if I was splitting My time between HB & LA like I had been doing before. Being a conservative health nut who still refuses to be vaccinated definitely sets Me apart from the bunch. Good. I'm glad I'm not like them. Once in a while I question if I should be in this "world". But Ill never leave, it's My personal fuck you to anyone who would love to see Me go. :)  

And for some Vegas photos..
I dont think I have ever felt or looked better. (photo above is Me poolside enjoying some tanning time on My cabana)
I have never felt more fortunate and balanced. 
Thank you slaves for being there for Me and for working hard to be able to serve Me and shower Me with gifts and acts of service. I love being your shiny Mistress. 
above photo taken 3/21/22
**Side note~ My 10 year Niteflirt anniversary is 4/30! Call Me at to celebrate with Me. **
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