Hello fans & stalkers ;)
I hope that you are all doing well today, I am. And I'm looking better and feeling better every single day. More importantly I'm able to enjoy it all because I'm also happy. I knew there would be a point where I would have to explain to you how things would work post scamdemic. I know that there are a lot of people looking to get back out there. There have been lots of applications to serve which is always flattering and I like. There are also slaves looking for parties and things to do, ways to serve and to be trained. Without dancing around the issue Ill say it straightforward: I am being so much more picky with My time and attention. Lets catch up.
I love being served and at this point - over 10 years- into My Pro Domme life you should know I don't have to tolerate any bs. Ive had some incredibly generous and loyal slaves serving Me throughout this "down time". Those relationships have deepened and became stronger. I have a nice stable of slaves and Im glad they hold My standards high and strive to serve Me always. It makes wanting to divide My attention a challenge at times and especially when you factor in time when Im not in "work mode". For example I make collaring a 1 year probationary trial, that is after I agree to see you for a tryout. I do not jump into anything and I enjoy drawing it all out. Mostly because consistency is key in keeping your Mistress happy. Easy come easy go they say, right. Not around here. So that covers slavery. Lets touch on sessions.
I know some of you have been curious about how I spent the year and managed to stay so happy, Sheri Land & loyal slaves.
Such good gimps for Mistress!!
I enjoyed bringing in the new year together as well as using a few of you cucks to make a better Valentines Day for Me by utilizing your dinner date tributes! TY. My slaves know that I have toughed out some pretty serious things this year already that I dont like to broadcast across socials too much. With the loss of a loved one immediately followed by some major emergency dental surgery I was on relax mode for a few months without choice. I basically was forced to take off May and June. There was no way I could consistently work through it all. I love that My slaves sent tributes so I could take time off that I really needed. I'm fortunate to not have just clients but some pervs with really big hearts around to support Me ❤️
Thank you slaves.
During the lockdown I did manage to get over to Las Vegas a handful of times! It's somewhere I don't think I will ever get tired of. There's always something new to see, an event to check out, and obviously a handful of slaves to pick from when I want to be wine & dined. My slave (below) got very lucky in sin city.. And lubey, and sweaty, etc.. I had him entertaining Me in Las Vegas and enjoyed every minute of it. I will likely be splitting My time between there and My Huntington Beach Dungeon more often. Has whips will travel ;) I do want to hangout with some of My favorite people while we both happen to be in town up there. So dont be a stranger! For example I will be there 3x already during August, so lets coordinate.
While all the girls I used to work with were busy being brainwashed by acronyms and pronouns I leaned in to Sheri Land & doubled down on Me <3 I am so happy I did not huff My mask all year or gain the covid 25. I have never looked better and I love the attention I am getting for it. I was told recently by someone that Im "glowing", and I agree. I even see it. I am so damn happy and unapologetic about how I feel. I guess if I was them I would try to pretend Sheri didnt exist too. But I love how they are also spending their free time blocking Me and screenshooting My posts just to talk about Me. Successful and so busy, right girls lol. I began to get a cold shoulder when I started to lose weight and become healthy and truly happy with Myself. I began to only hear from My femdom friends for professional purposes. Final straw for Me, I knew we couldn't be friends anymore when they were sour about My online businesses and Me saying that I was thriving and keeping afloat at the beginning of lockdown. I was told that it was because of My privilege that I was able to stay afloat lol I have NOT been invited and will not be attending any fetish parties in Los Angeles any time soon. You cannot pay Me enough to go to LA or to play in a room of girls who believe that cops are bad. I would not feel safe and do not want to associate with girls like that. Sometimes I miss the play parties so I will probably just start hosting My own. Stay tuned.
While Im bringing up other people I should share the landscape of what I see as the current FemDom scene around Me. Most of the local pro girls I know went woke. There are a couple of Mistresses who are still cool and I talk with regularly but were busy and we never see each other. The other handful of cool pros tend to be spread out across the county but I do invite them to visit Sheri Land to get away if theyd like to. The Complex dungeon in Orange County shut their doors at the beginning of scamdemic. That was run by Irene Boss who sometimes visits OC. She has always been cool to Me but we are both busy and tend to not run into each other during those visits. The other persons space who I liked to play at was The Ivy Manor in DTLA owned by Isabella Sinclair who relocated to the East Coast at the beginning of scamdemic. She has remained kind to Me but who knows when I can see Her again. Those were two spaces I lost where I personally liked to spend time. In the local LA community I see Sanctuary LAX is having fund raising because apparently they need to catch up on rent not paid. The Lair in the valley also seems to have not been paying rent during the scam because they are also fund raising. Those were spaces I had been to but not in years. Those memories are still fresh, it would be bad to see them close for good. I worked My ass off to keep things afloat for My dungeon. To be honest Im curious what they did instead. I wish this wasnt the case for anyone because these are not small losses in the kink world and likely these people were just doing what they believed was right for them. (I think they are only making the situation worse by having their divisive vaxxed only parties, Ill never support an event requiring that bs but that is a whole other story.)
Your Mistress was very happy with the service of a sweet slave who I have gotten to know during lockdown. I hope he liked the sight of Me in leather skirt, jacket & Louboutin boots and a fat cigar sticking out of My mouth as much as I did. Does it really matter? No but doesnt hurt. I'm pleased is really what matters.
Buy more. I need something for Halloween and for My birthday in November.
I also want more dungeon furniture built. I already know what I would like. Please dont send starbucks gift cards, send visa gift cards and Ill add them up to buy something more substantial. Help Me reach My goals, and focus on making it count instead of just being counted. I have got a bunch of subs trying to serve Me which I love, its flattering. For some, unfortunately for them, it feels like they are aimlessly going through the motions. Imagine if I spent My time responding to 15 mediocre messages each morning to ask how I am doing today instead of engaging with someone who craves connection like I do. Make it count.Be sure to subscribe to My website www.SheriDarling.com so that I can send an update once there is an announcement to make about upcoming events in Orange County.
I am happy and content and I am ready for more of what I like. Im considering allowing some new slaves to serve and earn a spot in My stable. First step is to apply through the slavery application on My website. Then they would follow through with making a connection with Me just like they would with any other girl they would want to accept a date request. If someone has already filled out an application but did not hear back from Me then they do have permission to follow up and ask about it one time. Also... Im happy to welcome back some of My past perverts who snuck away. Welcome back, bitches. Start digging. you guys always come back. Always. DomCon seems like it is not on the table for Me this year. All of the people I would want to hang out with will likely not show up. They all said that they do not have a week to hangout by LAX and take photos, we are all busy managing our own dungeons and businesses and a conference would eat up too much time. I would love to see people if they are in town for the thing but like I said previously: I really cant be bothered to come to LA. Not any time soon.
I spent some time making My patio more private. Its now a discrete very private outdoor space where you can be a useful human ashtray slave or foot stool while I relax. It gets the perfect sunset in the late summer / fall, so now. I actually really like spending time in this spot, its got a nice vibe. I hope to utilize it a lot more now.
Between managing My stable, family time & the freedom I have with My time I am excited to find out how you will work hard to earn My favor. I know I just said a lot but I hadnt updated My blog in months and I have been getting a lot of messages asking questions and this was the easiest way to respond.
And if you dont like My blog or what I have to say then you dont get to kiss My ass.
No! ;)
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