Summertime Sheri Update

 Hello Gooners, fans and former friends :)

Im still doing extremely well, thanks for checking in on Me!

Lets catch you up! Ive spent a lot of time smoking by the pool in Las Vegas where its now been a year of Me splitting My time between LV and HB! Time flew! Im loving both places more than ever. I think its given Me such a great balance that I had wanted for a long time. Glad I finally have it. It feels great to be able to make My dreams come true one slave at a time- whether its irl or virtually. 

In addition to feeling great I know that Im looking the best Ive ever looked physically. Im now into the 12 week of detoxing and I couldn't suggest it enough- and I usually do now. In addition to having Me control your mind and your cock Im now super happy when I can impact My slaves on a health level now by sharing what Ive been learning and applying to My own life.

I still love to have fun though. Photo from a slave date at a cigar bar in July. I love going to cigar bars & would like to visit them all. Being a health nut just means that Im more discipline than the normal human, but I think that goes with the territory. Ive always strived to become a better person. Physically. Mentally. Professionally. Im proud of who I am today, and I love Myself so damn much more every day that passes. Being this way tends to attract all sorts of people. From the kind who want to be energy vampires to the kind who see My shine and want to congratulate Me and be part of My life. Im very selective with who I share My energy with. Especccccccially after the rona scamdemic. Fortunately, I have good intuition about people and have met a lot of really cool subs lately. Happy.

Ive been enjoying a lot of reading time lately. I pick reading over tv time most days now. I added a bunch of books to My wishlist. One main topic I picked is Lucid Dreaming. The other being health. Lucid Dreaming was a topic My 11yo niece brought up so now Im trying to read books to approve and pass on to her. Shes an incredible little human and Im so fortunate to see her grow up. Next Im learning how to skate so that I can take her out to cool places and enjoy exploring fun places to practice with her. Just sharing a little of what I do outside of the dungeon because I do get asked a lot. I love being with My family and dogs.

I also have taken on a big interest in allowing slaves to take Me on dates, from day dates like snacks and drinks to actual dates after a session. I love being around classy men with good taste and having them treat Me well with reservations at fine dining or even just different activities. This was a day date with someone who wanted to play, so was actually the interview place I picked so I could see his demeanor, manners and hear what he really wanted to tell Me.  

Photo from a new favorite place, the sauna. I honestly went through some crazy health bs during May-July of this year. I thought I was going to die but I found out its a very common feeling in people who have health anxiety which I do. It felt like the same thing I had experienced before, when I came back from Costa Rica sick and couldn't get better for 6 months, was happening again. That is where My health anxiety began, worrying I would never get better or that I would stay sick for a long time again. I got a CT Scan, MRI & did physical therapy. I first wanted My doctor to help figure out what was wrong... but after waiting and literally begging for tests I decided to help Myself instead. Thank God I did. I think I would have stayed sick longer if I had waited for him to give Me answers. Thats what got Me into detoxing. Ive realized that working hard isnt always the best for Me even though I love to both in and out of the gym. I needed to be better about self care and about what I know is happening in My body. I found different recourses outside of traditional medicine and Im much happier and healthier now than I think Ive ever been. I know Im not completely immune to it but I do feel like I have control over it somewhat.  I got a massage membership and have tried to stick to getting in the sauna and red light therapy regularly in addition to My detox program. Now look at Me, you have never seen a happier Mistress in Me than today and every day going forward.

So thank you guys for sticking with Me, Especially slaveforSheri, slave j, and of course all of My slaves that I see regularly who I wont mention. you guys make Me feel so happy doing what is My job but its also so much more than that to Me, I know that you know that. One of you Ive been seeing for 11 years now, slave4Sheri has been Mine for over ten years.. Its because you make Me happy that I can be My true self with you and you give back energy that I put out so that I can keep going and not feel like My energy is depleted. Thank you <3

Ive been getting back into the normal routine and trying to be more consistent with it even though I do now prioritize being in balance more. Work hard then self care just as hard and relax is My new way of life. No stress. Just good vibes. I know whats right for Me and I attract it not chase it. 

What's new? New auctions! I used to love doing auctions and I finally found a place to do that again. Getting panties or socks or just sexy lingerie scented for you pervs to worship and adore forever is always fun. I love to see where these items end up and what you guys do with them. Someone who got one of My first auctions still worships them regularly and it tickles Me when he updates Me about spending time thinking of Me and loving My pre-worn stuff. 

HuffMyPanties.com is where you can find My auctions. 

Bid, win, worship - and HuffMyPanties

Beg to worship! Im online regularly even when Im seeing slaves irl. Because I can be picky, I am. So I do have a slight backlog of applicants. Some I am still considering. If I dont want to see you Ill just say so, I leave a lot on the table. Its stuff thats just not for Me. Never been happier to do that! I conserve My energy for the right people and those kinds of people keep showing up in My life. Like attracts like. I love hearing slaves introduce themselves though phone sessions. Phone conversations usually gives Me a great idea of someones likes, dislikes, goals and limits so I can usually gage if we will be a good match. Also seeing them grovel for Me online during cam dates is a big plus, especially for those who want to serve Me from a distance before they can make it to My perfect little feet. I usually take cam dates one or two days a week but only by appointment and one on one, not through a cam room. 

I hope you guys are doing well.

Whats coming up???

Halloween! I got asked to participate in what was known as the Fetish and Fantasy Halloween Ball in Las Vegas! Im very excited. Besides Torture Garden in Las Vegas (which I had a great time at) this is the second kink event Ive been able to enjoy since rona! I hope that if you dont have plans yet you can plan this in. Itll be Saturday October 29th at the Palms. Im sure you can duck duck go it and get a link for tickets :)

Birthday! Its two days before Thanksgiving this year so Ill probably celebrate it the weekend before. I plan on being in My dungeon the week prior so that I can see My favorite people and celebrate a fresh new year ahead of being your latex Goddess. I hope to see you and that you plan Me in!

Here are My favorite links for you guys to find Me on:

just add . com afterwards-

PhoneSheri

WorshipSheri

OnlySheri

sextpanther . com /MissSheriDarling

HuffMyPanties

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Let's Play

spring season Mistress update

Me in Sheri Land, My gorgeous independently owned / run Huntington Beach, Orange County California dungeon.

Hello fans and former friends lol I am still here and still doing incredibly well. 

Thanks for sticking with Me and always checking back :)

This gorgeous leather dress was sent to Me from a very sweet slave <3 
Since My last update just before the end of the year I have managed to keep very busy while also accomplishing some things in My private life. I am happy to have some of the best slaves who get Me and keep Me busy regularly. I am still not that eager to add in new people. Id say how few people new that Ive seen since scamdemic but I dont want to deter anyone from presenting themselves for servitude. Im picky (as I should be) but I am becoming more open to meeting new people. Especially since changing My screening methods. Prior I would rely on another girl verifying that the guy is cool and trustworthy. Now I do not trust other peoples decisions like I did previously. Some girls are just not safe and can take chances because they need to. I am not one of those girls. I have a large stable of slaves who have met and upheld My standards through their servitude. Anyone new has to rise to the set standard in commitment, consistency and communication -to begin with.. I do not chase after slaves, that is not My job. Im here to be served.

New custom latex <3 TY slave for Sheri for ordering this custom bodysuit for My birthday present.

This custom catsuit was also a gift for My birthday. TY slave g for going out of your way to gift Me something that will keep on giving for years and years. Being sentimental there is no way I could ever get dressed in these stunning custom latex looks without thinking about the sweet pervs who enabled Me to own them. 

I still have not traveled lol I was in a really "fuck you" mood to the airline industry for all of scamdemic for treating people and staff like such shit but to be completely honest - those idiots can fly Me everywhere now: Im ready to travel. I miss it. I have worked hard on My dungeon and stuck to My stable of slaves and have met tons of fun distance slaves over the last two years. I am huge on planning but am now growing tired of hearing what you would do if you could. You can. And you will. That is, if you want to actually serve Me. 

This was from a fun slave date. He has been so sweet to Me for years. We finally reconnected for another session in Vegas where he got to take Me out to sushi and then play. More of this please :) Especially since I do have such a flexible schedule and bounce back and fourth between oc and Vegas easily.

Process to become My slave in a session:

Email Me with a polite introduction.

Explain exactly who you are and briefly outline your interest.

I expect you to be able to prove who you are via professional website link, online mentions, official ID and travel itinerary. 

Its really as simple as that. If you are a good slave who cares about their health and safety then I would expect for you to have read My website and blog to approach with an obvious understanding of who I am and what I expect from you right off the bat. If you are a good slave you have done this and are eager to be screened to make Me feel safe and to show Me exactly who you are online and offline. I do not want to meet anyone that I do not feel safe around or do not think I can trust. Its as simple as that. 

I have gotten tons of applications for houseboys. Does My space look like it needs cleaning?? lol I understand this is how some new guys think they can gain entry into My private life but they're wrong. Im a control freak who has a constantly clean and neat work space because I need it to be that way. Take Me out. Dates, shopping, activities. Almost anything sounds better than playing get-to-know-you while I manage someone new doing My chores. Unless I feel like Im saving time or money it tends to feel like work. Being My slave is about improving  My life - not just being in it. slaves I already know and like are different, they are always welcome to offer themselves up to serve after a session. Fortunately all My slaves understand the love I have for My free time to enjoy peace, quiet and privcacy <3 Bring something to the table or book a session. you can be a great client, you do not have to also be a lifestyle slave. 

I really like being a Mistress though. I have some really sweet guys who would do just about anything for Me. This lifestyle has definitely led Me to become more private and I do keep Myself isolated at times. Its just easier to keep all the secrets that way lol But we all need balance. Because I like planning dates and play scenes My balance tends to be focused around time with family or time in the gym where I can just not think about anything while Im there- true Me time. I feel super fortunate that I have plenty of time for it all <3

Its been a long time since I have ventured out into the fetish party scene but its finally happening and I hope you all come out to join Me. The largest international fetish club is coming to Vegas. I will be attending Torture Garden in Las Vegas this May 6th in Area 15! The nice people at Torture Garden gave Me a link to share with you all for a 15% discount: CLICK HERE for tickets or use code TGLVSHERI2022 at checkout. It was the perfect excuse for Me to order something new and shiny from My Los Angeles based latex designer Abigail Greydanus, I hope you slaves will send tributes towards paying for it. What I am most excited about is the TG strict dress code! I cannot wait to see what everyone is wearing to the party. I am excited to reconnect with some friends as well as people I have not seen in years and also meet some people in real life that I have only met online so far. If you're going I hope you drop a note or say hello if you see Me. 

I will be available for play scenes as well as slave dates with a bit of planning. For play scenes you must host and deposit 50% up front so sort your calendar and make plans while we both still have time to set aside for play! Thank you for reading My website and following directions if this is your interest. Obviously I will be busy with the event on the 6th but will be in town for a few days before and after the party.

I have been regularly updating My fan pages:

worshipSheri dot com -loyalfans

onlySheri dot com       -onlyfans

sextpanther dot com /MissSheriDarling

Join one and serve Me virtually from wherever you are. All of these sites have a webcam session feature that you can utilize to cam with Me. Tribute to get My attention to start off and then secure a time slot - let's play. I love seeing the look on your face as we meet on cam and then finding out how fun and submissive you can be for Me.

Ive also been doing a lot of reflecting lately. Its been almost a year since losing someone close to Me. That really put things into perspective and still does daily. That defining time showed Me the value of the relationships I had. I reflect about how I spent the last year. With who. Did they make Me happy or impact My life positively? I reflect about how I got to this point as a seasoned pro dominatrix of over ten years now. Long story short Id just really like to emphasize how fake the relationships I had within My own industry turned out to be. All the girls I've worked with have tried to screw Me or My biz over one way or another (except Isabella and Jordan).

The relationships that stood the test of time are all with people who don't need to use Me for promo, who don't need Me to bring them clients or need people to help make them look good. Thank you, friends.  

Its liberating to see the growth I've been able to experience since leaving those relationships behind. I'm  not sure if Id have Sheri Land and a footprint in Las Vegas if I was splitting My time between HB & LA like I had been doing before. Being a conservative health nut who still refuses to be vaccinated definitely sets Me apart from the bunch. Good. I'm glad I'm not like them. Once in a while I question if I should be in this "world". But Ill never leave, it's My personal fuck you to anyone who would love to see Me go. :)  

And for some Vegas photos..

I dont think I have ever felt or looked better. (photo above is Me poolside enjoying some tanning time on My cabana)

I have never felt more fortunate and balanced. 

Thank you slaves for being there for Me and for working hard to be able to serve Me and shower Me with gifts and acts of service. I love being your shiny Mistress. 

above photo taken 3/21/22

**Side note~ My 10 year Niteflirt anniversary is 4/30! Call Me at phoneSheri.com to celebrate with Me. **

SheriDarling.com

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Winter Mistress Update

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Las Vegas Dominatrix Birthday Wishlist

Hello fans & stalkers,

I have been very pleased with My stable of playthings, slaves, clients and worldwide worshipers so this update has been overdue in My mind. But I overthink things sometimes instead of just writing an update and posting it lol I am happy to be finally feeling like My people are reemerging after the scam that had us separated for over a year, I could not be more excited. Most of you stayed in good communication with Me - good boys. It has been fun to execute some of those plans we have been formulating together over the recent months. One of My favorite things about planning BDSM scenes with lots of notice is how elaborate I can get. Casual is sometimes fun but only if its with someone that I know very well and it has to be kinky. Vanilla casual sometimes feels like punishment, because I believe that I am worth way more effort and planning.

I am used to feeling like a black sheep with My kinky life so this entire scam has just been -that- but on another level. And its ok especially because I feel like a lot of people are finally coming around to see that just like kink being a personal choice for each individual so are the decisions on measures that we take to protect our health. Also, some of you need to go back to minding your own fucking business. I am totally fine holding out to do some of the things that used to be My favorite for as long as it takes for Me to feel like I want to participate again. I am just focusing on staying positive and spending My energy differently these days. I have always been a firm believer that you support what you love actively + vote with your dollars. I am excited to begin to split My time between Huntington Beach and Vegas! I have made sure to update My website calendar www.sheridarling.com/calendar to reflect where I will be seeing My favorite pervs. I am utilizing My website more and more these days. Check it often. 

Summertime was fun. I managed to move half of My stuff to Las Vegas and began to set up camp! Im already finding My favorite local things to do while Im in town. I have a lot of dreams for Myself to fulfill while Im in Vegas. There are a lot of things Id like to do with My slaves here as well as solo just for Myself. During covid all I did was workout and garden so its nice to be able to manage those two passions on a larger scale now since I have more space. Plus the added bonus of interviewing new slaves post covid & in Vegas has been quite fun to break the tedious day to day stuff up. It had been tricky sticking to My fitness routine but I am back at it and I feel better than ever. It feels good to stay discipline and give My body the self care and hard work that I crave. Work hard + play hard. I could use additional fitness slaves to sponsor all of the supplements & gym passes Id like to enjoy. 

I finally went to My first concert in two years! I am so happy that live music is coming back. I am selective about what I support so it was an outdoor festival where no tests, masks or vax required. I would also love a concert pay slave to sponsor all of the shows Id like to go to in OC and in Vegas. Gimme :)

There are a handful of experiences in Vegas that I think would be extra fun with My people. So reach out via email when you will be in town, lets coordinate some fun.

When I do sit still for more than a few minutes you slaves have been lucky to see Me utilizing every curve as a weapon against your weak mind on webcam very regularly these days. Usually week nights but available most days with a few hours notice. I love cam domination sessions, it is so fun to see your face.. etc. The best part of online domination is that it bridges the gap in distance for all of us. I have been getting a lot of requests to see Me in person but I am still being selective. This has been a great way to meet for the first time face to face to a bunch of My people. Still seeing My favorite people who I have ongoing play with feeds My kinky heart and adding new ones in who earn their approval here and there has been going well too. After re-doing My website application process a few weeks ago I have already noticed a significant positive impact on the interaction that I have with new people. I like that it feels more like a conversation than you asking Me for a service. I am not interested in people seeking just a service and I enjoy people who understand that the relationship part of Ds / Ms is more important to Me. If I do not vibe with you right away I honestly think it is for a reason, I am easy to vibe with.

My dungeon >     I always get compliments on the vibe so I am very proud of being able to hold a space where the outside world is easily forgotten. I am excited to continue working on it to create more elaborate scenes with more fun toys, I love being your lifestyle Mistress. My scenes have become more elaborate with the added bonus of never having to share the space with anyone else. Its fun to be able to ask if you guys are on a tight schedule so I know how deep we can dive into play- a few of you lucky ducks have gotten Me on days where I could not care less about the clock. Thank you to the guys who get Me and make Me happy here regularly. Without you Id be sad. <3

Snapped a few photos of a fun scene with a good boy recently. Electro play violet wand, bondage, sex swing, locking heel cuffs, latex bondage tape were just a few things that got this party started. I never stop play for photos unless I know that it is something that you like and want because you specifically said so prior to beginning play time. Sometimes it can ruin the moment but sometimes it is fun to capture the moment too. 

All My hot photos get posted to www.worshipSheri.com now instead of social media. Its the website where My true fans get to know Me and get to see the real Me, what Im up to, what I like, teasing, photos and videos. If you want a Domme who has a set number of updates promised and a certain fetish to cater to each of you every single day - look elsewhere. My fan account is literally My true fans supporting Me and being allowed access to My private kinky life as a Pro Domme. If you have ever wanted to be My slave this is where you should start. Once you join you should use it to send tributes and compliments regularly. I love being served. If you are not serving you do not exist.  

This extra wide and extra long custom latex vac bed behind Me was a gift for My birthday last year from one of the sweetest slaves <3 My birthday is already coming up! I am so greedy for latex that its just a matter of narrowing it down to a manageable wish list that I can share. More on this below.

This was Me stepping out to a play party a few weeks ago.

I was happy I could match these emeralds to the rubber, both slave sponsored.

Be sure to sign up to My website email list. 

Find it at the top of My website www.SheriDarling.com

That is how you will be notified when I am ready to party again. 

Soon. But no promises.

I have a lot of great excuses to celebrate but being an independent person Ill probably just take Myself to a fancy af dinner & get a nice bottle of champagne. I would love to celebrate it the same way with each of My favorite slaves, offer yourselves up. 

Ten years as a Pro Domme is here.

My Birthday is also almost here.

Life is great, I have never felt better.

Ways you can make Mistress happy when meeting or taking Me out:

• Communication is key. 
• Be open because having expectations is the quickest way to suck the fun out of things. 
• When I feel like I am well taken care / that you are being generous I want to return it in kind.
• Acts of service and gifts are My love language. Do homework to learn My preferences.
• If something does not feel like it is worth My while I will be honest and not spend much time on it. 
• Be thoughtful by never arriving empty handed. 
• Have a plan B & sometimes C.
• Manners. Get all of My doors for Me and offer to assist with carrying all of the things.

Birthday Wish List

MsSheriDarling@ ProtonMail . CH

Just delete the spaces. 

Libidex.com Gift Voucher. I put two dresses and one catsuit in My cart that I have been wanting to order for a long time so that I could calculate the total with shipping and the order came to $1,010.00 rounded up ($371, $272, $272 + shipping). ** TY slave grayson 🖤 for your contribution towards this ** TY slave Jeff for your contribution towards a new rubber catsuit 😍 ** I ended up getting two catsuits and two new rubber hoods for Sheri Land <3

I would love more custom latex made by Abigail Greydanus who has made most of My rubber collection. She has My measurements and knows Me very well. Over the years she has helped Me bring My hottest custom rubber fantasies to life so if there is something you would like to be made for Me please order through her! www.abigailgreydanus.com I would also love a tab to use up so that I can design something special Id like! Coming up with something unique is always fun and a must for a true latex fetishist like Myself. If I were to place an order for a complete custom lingerie look (includes bra, panty, gloves, stockings & accessory) I like I would expect to spend around $1,000.00, or for a sexy cocktail dress or bodysuit maybe between $300-$500. Off of the top of My head Id love a new complete lingerie look or two, a cocktail dress and a few swimsuits. ***** Thank you slaveforSheri for sending Abigail 1k towards My rubber latex lingerie! 😍***** I ended up getting two sets of lingerie with matching opera gloves and a bodysuit all custom designed just for Me <3

Photoshoots. There are two photographers I would like to work with, one in LA/OC and another in Vegas. Their photography packages begin at $500. I have not done a proper photoshoot in over 2 years so this is overdue. Especially because My body has never looked better. 

BDSM Furniture. I would love additional pieces made. This is for My big slave spenders, I expect to spend at least $1k per item. I have too many ideas so this would likely be something the buyer would enjoy most. 

Id like to treat Myself to all of the finest spa day experiences that I can get My perfect little fit body into while Im in Las Vegas.

Here are links to all of the Las Vegas spas that I would like to enjoy on your dime, not all of them have gift cards so you can send a vanilla.com gift card for the amount instead:

The Euphoria Kings Bath: https://crlv89109.na.book4time.com/onlinebooking/SpaMenu.aspx

https://wynngiftcards.com/ Menu https://www.visitwynn.com/documents/spa_at_encore.pdf

https://trump.wgiftcard.com/responsive/personalize_responsive/chooseDesign/trumphotels/1

CBD From Mowellens.com  This website has kept Me sane since finding their products about two years ago. Still have not found anything that works better for Me when I am feeling anxious.

https://mowellens.com/product/the-keepers-stash/

https://mowellens.com/product/inner-peace/

I am looking forward to finishing the year strong with some of My favorite slaves and kink friends. Planning a head and communication are key. So if it is serving in person, on cam for sessions or calling on the phone I want you guys to know that I appreciate all the servitude that goes into keeping your Mistress happy. I truly am.

Thank you / keep it up. 

www.SheriDarling.com

www.phoneSheri.com

www.worshipSheri.com

www.iwantSheri.com

www.clips4sale.com/57281

www.twitter.com/Sheri_Darling 

www.SpoilSheri.com