Monday, July 8, 2013

Whats new?

I'm super excited about this week!
I have a few things planned I'm extremely happy about :)
happier than I usually am I should say.
Busy busy Monday, plus I have tons scheduled every day this week after morning ass kicking at Butt School
(new workout routine I'm doing).

I have a fetish for boots, so about half of the shoes I own are boots. High heel, flats, leather, canvas, thigh high, shiny & ankle boots.. I cant get enough. I feel like there's a boot for every occasion, and I'm determined to collect them all! I have a few foot guys who enjoy calling Me on NiteFlirt to hear about My collection of heels & boots. Its so fun describing them, its My kink too so I love being a tease. Oh by the way they could really use a polish..... Anyways, I have one of those perverts coming in to see them all. Its going to be a bitch hauling them to the studio but it'll be soooo worth it having them all worshipped & cleaned. I love being what men crave, I love being what they obsess over. Especially when we share one or a few of My many fetishes.

Another fetish I love indulging in..
I have dedicated a closet in My apartment to being a "cock whore closet". I have a fantasy that a boy will arrive, have his boy clothes locked away & then would have access to the fully stocked cock whore closet. Heels, dresses, toys, accessories, lingerie & a few other goodies are living in there just waiting till a sissy slut comes back.. Although My slave visits, I have a session planned this week that will allow Me to make more good use of it! I plan to take this gurl all over town. From serving Me domestically, to going out for cocktails & then likely ending the night at the dungeon. I plan to turn this hussy into a rope rigged damsel, after she does My chores of course (and possibly during)... Then getting her tipsy & having even more fun- if she is a good gurl. Which I'm sure she will be. I remember the first time we played, I could not keep My hands off her... *memories*
Im having dinner this week with one of My favorite whipping posts ;) Its crazy how times flies. Beating him really allows Me to explore the blood thirsty sadist I am deep inside. I love how he simply loves watching Me as I use all sorts of evil toys on him.. Ive had more dinners with him this year than beat downs, I hope that changes - simply because I hate the way that sounds lol ;) See above picture, a great picture of some artwork I did on him :)

I have a ton of shit planned this week, those being a few of them...
I'm ending the week right with a slut a thon! lol My dungeon is hosting another multi Mistress party where only the best slutty & submissive slaves are Our entertainment. Id love for some of you perverts to come out & be My slut. I don't currently have a main slut on My arm so Ill be harassing all your fuckholes until I'm pleased. Basically its like paying for a session, then you get be used to amuse Us for the entire evening. SLUT, meaning a Mistress will kneel you at the glory hole like you've always dreamed of, perhaps spark the interest of a couple Mistresses & be the star in your very own strapon gangbang, multi Mistress toilet play is possible, as well as endless worship possibilities. Masochists are a plus, be a good boi & make a bee line to Me for punishment & reward that will have your head spinning xo Here is the link, please contact Me if you are interested in attending so I may look out for you!

Im sure a newbie or two will earn a place at My feet this week, I always look forward to firsts with a new play partner almost as much as I enjoy pushing limits with some of My favorite boys.. Cant wait to see all your slutty faces!
Worship from wherever you are:
Let's get kinky!!!

Sunday, July 7, 2013

victims of their own decisions

When someone who profits from this industry wants to play victim of their own decisions it gets Me a little annoyed. Through a few experiences I have quickly learned to be careful about who I associate Myself with..
I was going to explode if I didn't tell this "domme" how I feel, thought Id forward it to you for kicks & to vent without naming her. lol read on..
her post:
What I wrote to her:
I couldn't help but to want to get a few things off My chest after reading what you posted yesterday. I think its great that you found something else to do instead of being a pro Domme because what you wrote made it pretty clear that you didn't enjoy it. "However, I no longer want to be someone’s ‘quick fix’.  I don’t want to exist in the shadows.  I can’t handle the strain that this industry puts on My personal relationships." I think what is most clear here is that YOU couldn't handle the strains that this job sometimes requires. How you feel about your clients & slaves should have been reflected as your own experience I think. The relationships I & many Dommes have with clients & slaves does not leave Us feeling like their quick fix because this lifestyle is actually what you make it. I also think what you wrote makes you seem to be now looking down on ProDommes and also looking down on your clients who have both trusted you with their secrets & experiences. The decisions youre making could have impact on the slaves & clients you have gotten to know. How do you think a boy could feel after finding the courage to see you & then find out youre over it & look down on pay for play subs? Existing in the shadows? These were choices you made & now it seems youre saying youre above them, that We as ProDommes don't actually make these men TRULY happy. Its offensive to Me & Im sure to other ProDommes. We sacrifice a lot as Im sure you know & we work hard to enjoy the lifestyle WE want with good slaves & clients who support Our lifestyle. To have you just shit on Our job title made Me a bit disappointed in you. Good luck with moving on.
her response:
Its true, I couldn't handle the strains of the traditional ProDomme lifestyle. I own that. I'm doing what's necessary to make a change and be honest about my experience. I will not apologize or be shamed for that. This is not about YOU or anyone else in our industry, please refrain from projecting your opinions on me.
If she really felt that way she wouldn't have changed what she said in her blog to this:
I normally wouldn't care, shes on her way out apparently right.. But for her to say those things about ProDommes & about her clients really annoyed Me. To blame the industry for anything & then to keep one foot in the door one foot out is just hilarious. I spotted this fake domme a few months ago when she first came to use the studio I use. She posted in a group and asked about others plans as far as an "exit strategy". Although its always good to have a back up plan I just thought how weird that was. I'm certainly not looking for an exit strategy, Ive got yearrrrrs more in Me & My focus is on mastering My craft, learning & educating Myself in a variety of ways.. Its so strange to Me that she is riding the coat tails of Ladies who actually have skills & respect as her exit strategy. I and other Pro Dommes, other submissives & slaves aren't fooled. Perhaps if you don't want to be someone that a married man calls for a quick fix you should quit offering 30 minute "discovery sessions" don't you think?..
Someone so lost as she seems to be should not be giving advice to others, in My opinion. 

Here is My advice for her:
However, I no longer want to be someone’s ‘quick fix’.
- Don't offer 30 minute sessions, duh.
- People treat you the way you allow them to.
- Build a real relationship with your subs, they don't all need fixing!
I don’t want to exist in the shadows.
- Go be a fucking lifeguard at the beach if you want sunshine, ho.
- Stop playing victim to your decisions.
- My subs who can go in public during the day go out often, we don't hide.
I can’t handle the strain that this industry puts on My personal relationships.
- Stop seeking approval & acceptance in everyone else.
- Go away & quit blaming the industry for your decisions.
- For some of us its not just an industry, its a lifestyle. Bitch.  
I think I feel better now, had to get that out.