Monday, July 30, 2012

Reflecting..

Hi pervs & play partners~
New chastity locks arrived, let the fun begin ;)
Snapped 7.25.12 Myself.
Thought I would take a minute to say a few things as I reflect back on the past year. I'm in such a great place right now & feel like everything is coming together finally. I'm using amazing playspaces that offer not only a discrete location but great functional furniture & well thought out set ups for all kinds of BDSM play. I surround Myself with kinksters who I respect & look up to. I'm on the verge of filming some great scenes to share with perverts like you.. I'm always in the process of owning and training a few really great slaves ;) 
~Life is good!~
Gifted from My newest slave
Snapped 7.16.12
Latex by Abigail Greydanus
Gifted from My sweetest CD gurl this week!
(I'm ready to film!!!)
When I first began I was treated like an employee by a lady who tried to get Me & all the other girls she knew to promote her, promote her playspace & to be there a few days a week waiting around like a whore. She would get Ladies to session there with the promise of getting them sessions when  really, she was more of an old washed up fetish model who liked the title Domina and wanted to pass off her disgusting clients to anybody else lol. Escorting activities going on there with her full knowledge, so obviously I really didn't like being associated with that place (or her crazy ass)... Gee no wonder girls came & left like a Marry go round!! I found that once I was fed up & refused to session there any longer I really have grown so much. I did feel I was treated as her working girl & I didn't like it. I'm Dominant by nature and work hard to benefit MYSELF, I need My freedom & although I am a compassionate Domme I don't take any persons bullshit. She was too cheap to even purchase hand soap for her "dungeon" & would dilute it down with water, what a joke. I do regret sessioning there because she treated true lifestyle submissives & slaves like shit, always talked behind their back while constantly trying to take advantage of them. Because of those things I really don't feel it was as pleasant of an experience as sessions in other dungeons Ive used since then.
~You live & you learn, right!~
Snapped 7.29.12 at the Hollywood playspace
The orange county playspace has been there over 12 years. Its beautiful, multiple rooms that were well thought out & has a GREAT reputation in the Fetish community.. Its also where I usually attend play parties! The Hollywood playspace is honestly a bit small but is clean, sexy, discrete & the owners are rad & always finding ways to improve it. The new playspace I'm using in West LA is amazing too- it shows you that a real Domme who really Dominates can set up play spaces better than anyone who fakes it. Really, I give Dungeon West a lot of credit, I really like it there. Plus everyone is chill! They aren't looking to make rent off of Me alone lol
Snapped 7.26 at Dungeon West
I learned a lot about Myself too. When I first started I thought I was a bit more switchy than I am.. has to be the right energy, right kind of play &&&& I have to be in a bottoming kinda mood, which I never really feel with anyone but My boyfriend or a super hot sexy Lady.. I quickly learned how easy it is for men fall in love with Me, the 4 marriage proposals this year were very cute lol Ive learned really how special a true submissive slave is, I appreciate them more & more each day. To live a life of service is such a beautiful, flattering gift, I almost get a high and bit emotional just thinking of them.. No its not an act. This is how I support My lifestyle but I am far from a money grubbing whore. I'm picky. I will block & turn away any inappropriate or unwanted attention & the money isn't any sort of persuasion otherwise. I offer legal BDSM & fetish play only.  I screen My clients so well that I do appreciate the ones who will jump through a few loops to take their place at My feet. I know I have quality subbies who will wait to see ME & not just any chick ready "now". Judging if you are a compatible play partner for Me begins at your initial contact & if you are truly a sub or fetishist I know you'll follow instructions to get My time-- & I appreciate & respect you more for it!
snapped 7.28.12 Myself
World difference from waiting around like a whore with a shitty person at their shitty playspace to being truly independent & playing with My clients in quality spaces run by real lifestyle kinksters. THAT is something that I am happy for!

I still do have many goals I know are within reach
& Im thankful for the sweet pets who support Me.

Stay kinky xoxoxo