Sunday, November 24, 2013

Hogspy internet troll

After reading a note from Miss Julie about how hogspy wouldn't link to My website in an article about Me & how he insulted the quality of & image that She was submitting I was done. I couldn't sit quietly one more time... So I tweeted.
 
I admit, I poked fun at him being so upset in his response to My tweets. Its JUST twitter dude. I also tried to ask him many times in the course of our emails for him to tell Me exactly WHAT I said that he thinks is a lie, I even offered to retract & remove it if he could point it out to Me & these are the responses I got.
 
When he threatened Us We decided to jointly make a blog post about it which Miss Julie posted HERE & instead of pointing out when or how We were inaccurate he decided to continuously make threats to us because We refused to delete our posts.
I told him he needs to calm down..
I again ask to specify what I lied about but he couldn't find anything since We are both honest & have no reason to lie.
I replied "lol"
I again ask to point out what lie & even offered to remove & retract it but he insisted to continue threatening to publish lies about Me.
 
 
So yah. Don't feed the internet trolls!
 
 

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.

Safe sane & consensual kink
Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.
There are many aspects to safe & sane consensual kink, this is just one.

I know My clients and slaves tend to be married. They are attached to their families who they love very much & the life that they spent years building. I never in any way want to compromise anything that makes them happy. I have felt torn at times knowing that in the minds of wives this is cheating but I confidently believe that I am the only outlet for something so true & suppressed in so many different types of men. I love that I can be who I truly am on a daily basis & when they're with Me they get to be who they secretly wish to be but keep hidden day in & day out. I know that its a lot of work to live a double life, I wish everybody was as fortunate as I am to feel accepted & loved without judgment for who I am and for who I want to be. My slaves mean more to Me than they might ever know. I accept them, I love them & I am completely protective over them.

I realized that not all of you are completely aware of small mistakes that can take big tolls on your vanilla lives & that is the reason behind this rant. I feel it is part of My job to inform you of suggestions which will hopefully protect you from harming your family or job. Here it goes..

First of all, try to get your partner to understand what you would like to try together. Buying some toys is a great way to let Her find the rush BDSM can bring into any relationship. Stockroom just came out with a line of toys that are great basics for any beginners. CLICK HERE to take a peek. When that doesn't work....
  • Get Separate Accounts- for everything.
  • Separate email accounts. This way your new social networks aren't tied to your vanilla email address. Same with phone number. Google voice will give you a free phone number with your new email account, use it to connect your kinky social networks if those apps ask for it.
  • Google voice usage will still show up on your bill if you are using your cell phone, remember that. It is still an option to use it by calling or texting from your laptop instead of the phone since there will be no documented record of it on a bill.
  • Separate social networking accounts. Having a way to express yourself, to be heard and share opinions on your new experiences is important to Uus all. Set up your new social networks using your new email account and phone numbers, this way when someone allows their apps to search their contacts for other people using the same app --your hidden account wont come up.
  • To communicate with those who are being watched like a hawk I recommend using data messaging apps on your smart phone. It allows you to text others by using data which wont show up as text charges on your phone bill. Or use Instant Messenger from gmail or yahoo for the same reason, no trail of an email. All you need is Internet.
  • Remember to delete your browsing history on your computer and also for your Instant Messenger programs. Ctrl+H is how you bring up the menu that gives you the option to delete your history on your web browser. Instant Messengers have a setting you can change to the option of not having your chat history saved, pick that option or remember to delete your chat history before you log out.  
  • Passwords are your friends. Put a password lock on your phone. Password your user account on a shared computer. Make sure the passwords are a little different on each account because what is the use in having to get one password to enter every social network & account possible? The more roadblocks the better. Taking things online by using data messaging systems vs using the phone to call or text is in My opinion the best way to remain undetected, just remember to always clear your history just in case.
  • Separate bank accounts, establish shit before you begin your second life. This way wife doesn't ask about your purchases or withdraws. Give her money for her separate account, this way she is taken care of & you will have your freedom to explore your kink privately. Or the second account can be completely your secret to avoid the whole "yours, mine & ours" debate. Another idea is to buy yourself gift cards to use as debit cards. Load it up so you'll be ready to pay for those online gifts or dinner with your Miss if you should feel the want to serve in that way. I know its one thing to send money tributes which allow Us to enjoy the lifestyle that Wwe both want to enjoy but I know many of you also have the desire to surprise your Miss by buying things off a whishlist or website & this is one way to make it happen. Make sure you check the website you are shopping or buying off of to see what cards they accept such as a prepaid visa or mastercard and these can usually be bought at a drugstore or supermarket. It does require a little more legwork but if its worth it to you then its a great solution.
  • Using cash is always best to avoid a money trail. It cant be tied to any specific thing so it can be explained away easier. Sending money orders in the mail has been a great way to transfer money for Me since My mailbox & POBox both have locks. If you prefer not sending money via mail then gift cards are best since they are usually easily transferable online. NetSpend reload packs work well & are simple to use. I sometimes will ask for it as a form of deposit for sessions for gentlemen who cant or wont go online for deposits because they have to be careful. Just go to a 711 or walgreens (or find distributors locations on netspends website) & pay for the gift cards with cash to completely eliminate the paper trail. The card is loaded & has a code on the back of it which you will give Me, it allows Me to go online to My netspend account & transfer that money to My account.
  • If you buy yourself a giftcard with cash & then use it to add to your niteflirt account you can still call from your laptop & worship My voice & laugh. Ive even had guys use Skype to call from niteflirt on their computers. They're usually out of the country but it would still work if you're just avoiding the phone bill proof of calling -Me- and the bill proof of reloading your niteflirt. 
  • Time - your family & friends will notice if you suddenly stop doing the things that you normally do or are suddenly missing for hours at a time. So be busy before you start a second life, keep busy, have a hobby, maintain your current responsibilities & lifestyle. The goal should be to find a way to routinely slice out time that can eventually be used for fun.
  • Have an alibi - if you say you're going somewhere then actually go & preferably have some proof. It can be a picture of where you went, it can be a receipt or an online check in on your vanilla Facebook account. Do something to show where you've been. This way any additional time away can & will be easily explained away. 
  • Don't fall in love with Me - what Wwe have is a Ds relationship & although it can become intense I am not your primary partner. I have very clear boundaries so confusing things & blurring the lines will not be good for you, Me or anybody.  
  • If they find out... I suggest minimizing everything. Few people will understand but both you & I know how much & exactly what Wwe mean for each other & I'm satisfied with that. I completely respect your need for privacy & will not attempt to contact you first, ever but especially not if you tell Me you hit a bump in the relationship road. I am always here for My pets & slaves if they need Me to listen, make suggestions or just distract them.
I know people might feel betrayed or concerned for your health/safety even though you & I know what we practice is safe, sane & consensual kink. Yes, the consequence of having to face someone who isn't open minded or just doesn't get it really sucks, and hurts. For that I'm sorry, I wish I was powerful enough to eliminate & protect you from that. Ive had My fair share of instances where I had to defend My kink. Seeing Me happy was important to those close to Me who love Me & those are the people who I value the most in life.

It isn't easy & there is a small price to pay if you're secretly kinky. But its so worth it to enjoy the bliss of what true Ds relationships offer I think. I enjoy being served in a variety of ways & each slave I allow to serve Me is special to Me & not taken lightly. I think if you follow these suggestions you will be able to experience kink & know if its truly what you enjoy & want to be a part of your lifestyle. And when you realize you cant go back after being kinky & that you deserve to be happy you can fly your freak flag high & proud with Me & tell those narrow minded people to eat shit. xo



Saturday, November 9, 2013

Dominican Domination 2013 DommeTrips

DommeTrips 2013 was such a fantastic 9 days, cant wait till next year!
I have to admit, I really love My life
The view from My villa, just steps away from the ocean. I did reserve this one for next year already, I enjoyed it very much. All I have to do is decide who Im bringing.. A slave?.. A friend?.. A human sex toy? Decisions decisions..
When My slave was unable to attend DommeTrips with Me I thought MsKitsch of FetishKitsch.com was the best person to bring. I was right, as usual ;) Thanks to MrKitsch for letting Me smuggle her to FemDom Island for 9 days. Thanks to slaveforSheri for booking the trip & thanks to Sherispaulina for flying Us to paradise! I am already looking forward to next year. Just a note- single boys can & do book themselves a trip & serve many Ladies while there. Goddess Phoenix is now offering training at an additional cost for boys to be trained as a submissive slave & I really love what Shes doing. I will not decide who Im bringing next year until after July or so- if you have any desire to escort Me there in order to be in service to Me you had better be ready to EARN the opportunity, I love being served but not just any slave will do. Good luck.
 Dominican Domination is unlike any other kink trip. Theme days to dress up for every night, poolside S&m play, floating in the pool all day & refining My singletail skills- this is the life. Slave g was awesome, I absolutely loved him fetching drinks all day only to get his skin busted open by Me nearly every night all week. What a good sport! Im so glad he was as happy to be My main target all week as I was!
A view of one of the latex swimsuits I had made special for this trip. Don't you just love functional zippers? I do.
 My martini dress for the Eat Me Drink Me theme day, loved this dress!
Another swimsuit view 
What do Wwe do all day? Float in the pool, with cold drinks, socialize & admire all the sexy ladies in sight. What do Wwe do all night? Play, have slaves amuse Us, enjoy the Jacuzzi & socialize. DommeTrips spoils Uus all.
Got My boobs nice & tanned at the pool! Thanks to Abigail Greydanus for always coming up with the best looks for My curves, I really cannot say enough good things about her talent, creativeness & how pleasant she is to work with! I send her so many emails when were planning a big week of outfits like this & I always wonder if other latex fetishists get that way too. Im fortunate that My slaves understand how excited & happy it makes Me to get one of a kind custom pieces from her & often too :) thanks pervs! (by the way Im already considering New Years Eve dresses as well as Valentines day dresses *hint) 
This was the Little Red Riding Hood dress I had made, a slave also wore the latex wolf hood I had made for the fucked up fairytale theme day!
 I love a good theme day. Dressing up in latex always does it for Me. Its crazy how I know itll never be enough, there wont ever come a day where I feel like I don't want new latex. I have some fantastic gorgeous pieces which I love & will always love but the feeling of something shiny & new gets Me every time. I love parties where other rubber fetishists dress up & go all out. It was great to see what everyone else was wearing each day & night.
 Whos afraid of the big bad wolf?! Not Me.
This was for the "shine" theme day, catsuit clad! MsKitsch loves her Fantastic Rubber catsuit, Ive never tried them but I hear great things about their prodcts. Im wearing My new House of Harlot catsuit!
This was Halloween, My Military Dress & Miss Kitschs Kitty costurme!
Pretty awesome performance, Mistress Absolute being a devious Hooters Girl 
One of the highlights of each evening were the amazing performances. Mistress Nicolette did a few fantastic performances involving bondage & fireplay. Mistress Absolute did some awesome kinky performances, Tigger fucking pooh, Hooters Girl, and another where She wore the cutest latex shark costume. Jewel Marceau did a hilarious but extremely sexy zombie belly dancer performance. These ladies are such a blast to be around! 
Goddess Phoenix finishing off My favorite masochist.  All those marks on his back is from using each of My single tails on him that night. Joy!! Aww and he still had those pink clothespins on his junk, fun times.
Last day in Dominican 
There was no theme this last night so I went with My usual- thigh high boots, thigh high stockings & a corset. Im auctioning off these stockings CLICK HERE  
The bartender fell in love, thought Id be nice & take a picture with him, especially after he let Me spank him a bit ;) 
He is begging for a kidnapping practically.. 
We painted a rock to go find when We return next year. How appropriate, slave gregs name is black, blue & dripping blood.
For old times sake, the popular Tiger Dress I wore last year during DommeTrips
youre welcome
 
Next trips are Vegas, Amsterdam for the Wasteland party & London to celebrate New Years Eve. Get in touch via My website www.SheriDarling.com if you would like consideration to serve Me.

 

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Birthday Wishes

Hello perverts!
 

My Birthday is November 22nd
While Ive been thinking of lovely gifts that Id enjoy I decided to make a list:
 
  • $4,000 debt paid off
  • Louboutin Monicarina Over-The-Knee Leather Platform Boots
  • Louboutin Daffodile Platform Red Sole Pumps, Any Color -Black or Nude priority.
  • Surprise Me with any Louboutin, YSL, Chanel or Bebe boots size 7 or 37, 37.5
  • A 1k-10k gift voucher for Fabulously Fetish heels
  • 5k toward moving in December (1st month rent, last month plus deposit & moving costs) slave p is taking care of this, thank youuuu xo
  • Jewelry
  • Ticketmaster gift cards
  • Amazon egift cards
  • 1yr VIP Membership to PopPhysique would be so amazing! ($1700)
  • 1yr Membership at Burke Williams Spa ($80-150/mo)
  • Latex Vac Bed
  • Puppy cage
  • Any or all of the whips on My wishlist HERE
And last but not least I want your ass submitting to Me! Worship Me extra hard and make Me smile for My birthday :)

Tributes may be sent via Chase Quickpay to My email address, or by clicking & paying tribute via the Niteflirt buttons below. All tributes will likely go toward bills since I am going to be on the road at least a week each month plus travel expenses for AMSTERDAM, PARIS, LONDON & VEGAS ~ Id like to see the world & you can help make that happen xo
Tribute $100  
Tribute $200
Tribute $500
Tribute $1000

Thanks sluts. I might make some additions or HOPEfully cross of an item or two if they get taken care of by then.
xo Miss Sheri